"I Hate You, Mommy!" What To Do When Our Kids Are Mad: Modern Analytic Parenting, 2010.
Modern Psychoanalysis teaches us how we turn anger against ourselves, and its antidote; constructive management of aggression. This is a crucial aspect of parenting. The article describes Modern Analytic theory and how those trained in it can use it in their own parenting. All parents can learn from this. Real life parenting vignettes from Modern Analysts are presented as examples of how children have been helped to feel comfortable with their angry feelings.